The Soil
An 8-week deep dive into the rivers of relating, unfurling relationship patterns, and nourishing the soil of our partnerships.
loving ꩜ wholling ꩜ healing.
Some of our deepest work in life takes place in our romantic relationships. Unfurling our heart to another and having them mirror back all of our wounds is always going to feel like a spiralling dance. The truth is - our partners are always going to shine a light on what remains unresolved in us. In essence, what they are reflecting is the relationship we have with ourselves. This can feel terrifying, however, when we can build safety and learn how to truly hold one another while doing it - it can very quickly become our greatest teacher, and our greatest gift.
All relationships are beautiful, messy experiences….
All relationships are beautiful, messy experiences. No matter where we go, our patterns will follow. No matter who we meet, we cannot outrun our healing work. Love has an underbelly, but there is so much beauty to be found traversing through the subterranean spaces together.
“The Soil” is an 8-week deep dive into the realms of relating. It is a journey that is open to both singles and couples, regardless of which stage you have entered into on your journey of relating, or whether or not you are currently relating with anyone at all.
The course begins by tending to our most important relationship - the relationship we have with ourselves. The desire for love is wired into the very colourful tapestry of our being, but before we can create rewarding bonds with others, first we must be able to stand firmly and wholeheartedly in self-acceptance. If we don’t know how to truly love, nurture, celebrate, and really choose ourselves - then how can we expect our partners to?
Part of this journey of self-reclamation involves tending to the fractures that we experienced across the timeline of lives and exploring any earlier imprints of learnt behavioural patterns and/or abandonment wounds.
Through tending to the soil of our own inner landscape, and becoming clear on how to self-hold as an adult and take responsibility for our own emotions, the course then moves onto exploring how that can support the relationships we have with others. This is where we can begin to really fertilise the soil of our partnerships by becoming clear on our needs, values, commitments, unique nervous system responses, love languages, and boundaries - while maintaining conscious communication, sensual aliveness, passion, and desire.
“The soil” is an 8-week roadmap to support you in understanding the root of your relationship patterns, end the cycles of self-abandonment, and move into deeper self-union and pleasure.
Understanding the Self ꩜ Family Systems Therapy and how to explore your emotional landscape ꩜ Mother and Father relationships and how that plays out in partnerships ꩜ Understanding attachment styles ꩜ Understanding core wounds / imprints and how that impacts our relationships with others ꩜ Regulating the nervous system ꩜ Working with anger and fire in healthy ways ꩜ Asserting boundaries ꩜ Self responsibility ꩜ How to become radically accountable for how you contribute to the dynamic of all your relationships ꩜ Understanding what’s yours and what’s your partners ꩜ Conscious Communication ꩜ Deep Listening ꩜ Understanding your needs ꩜ Asking for what you need ꩜ Erotic Blueprints ꩜ Sex starts outside of the bedroom ꩜ Maintaining Passion and Desire ꩜ Understanding love languages ꩜ Becoming clear on your values ꩜ Commitments to Self ꩜ Commitments to other ꩜ The importance of nourishing and fertilising ‘The Soil’ of your relationship ꩜
The Soil Content…..
About Demi & Josh
Both Demi Lee and Joshua have been leaders in sacred women’s work and sacred men’s work in the community of Melbourne across the past 5 years, facilitating more than hundreds of men and women between them. They are both anchored in the realms of lead facilitation, family systems therapy, and trauma-informed facilitation. Between them they are trained in parts work, emotional embodiment, plant devotion, understanding shamanic energy, intuitive healing, mediumship, positive psychology, NLP, exploration of limiting blocks and patterns, and timeline therapy.
Outside of their individual training and immense amount of experience working with both men and women, both Demi Lee and Joshua have also been on a profound journey of self-discovery and growth through tending to the depths of their longterm relationship. In this journey, they have become each other's unwavering reflections and sources of expansion as they navigate through their own individual struggles and accomplishments. Through utilising their connection and commitment to one another as a transformative instrument, and weaving it with all they have learnt on their journey of facilitation and space-holding, both Demi Lee and Joshua have received profound insight into the realms of relating and how healthy relationships be potent sources for personal growth and healing.
DEMI LEE
Demi Lee is has one of Eclectica Hub’s lead facilitators and directors and has worked with hundreds of women on their journey of self-reclamation across the past 5 years. Eclectica Hub is a Melbourne-based visionary dance school that supports women and female-bodied people to return to their truest nature through modern day rites of passage. Demi Lee’s passion is fostering a deep connection to earth, self, spirit, life, death, grief, and community - through re-wilding both our inner and outer landscapes. Leading from instinct and intuition, her power lies in supporting people to integrate their past experiences, explore their emotional landscape, and de-armour the parts that are holding themselves back from liberating their most uninhibited, full-bodied expression. Through compassionate witnessing and mirroring, and the exploration of limiting blocks and emotional patterns, Demi Lee’s intuitive lens will support you in understanding your body and your core wounds - gently guiding you to return home to your soul’s blueprint.
JOSHUA
Joshua is a seasoned facilitator with a passion for supporting both individuals and couples to explore their deepest selves, unearth their true potential, and begin the journey towards lasting healing and transformation. With extensive knowledge and experience in positive psychology, Time Line therapy, NLP, parts work, and ritual theatre, Joshua's work is not just a collection of techniques - it is a reflection of his soul's calling to help others become genuine leaders of their own lives. As a senior facilitator at The Man Cave, a preventive mental health and emotional intelligence charity that has positively impacted over 40,000 young men across Australia, Joshua has guided young men towards embodying healthy masculinity. He also provides facilitation training and mentorship to the facilitators who deliver these programs. Whether you are just beginning your path towards healing and growth or are already well on your way, Joshua's compassionate and authentic approach will help you unlock the power of your own limitless potential.
Held Online Via Zoom….
‘The Soil” will be held online via Zoom, in weekly 3-hour evening slots on Thursday evenings Australian Eastern Standard Time..
The course is open to people all around the world. We recommend trying to make every call, however if you cannot we can send you the Zoom recordings.
Content Dates.
WEEK 1
Thursday May 4th
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
WEEK 2
Thursday May 11th
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
WEEK 3
Thursday May 18th
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
WEEK 4
Thursday May 25th
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
WEEK 5
Thursday June 1st
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
WEEK 6
Thursday June 8th
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
WEEK 7
Thursday June 15th
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
WEEK 8
Thursday June 22nd
Warrandyte, Melbourne
6:30 PM - 9:30 PM AEST
Who this course is for:
Those that are seriously ready for a deep change in the core ꩜ Those that are prepared to explore their wounds in a safe container and descend into a deeper understanding of how that wounding can impact the way they show up with others ꩜ Those that are ready to both navigate and fully take responsibility for ~ their wounding, their emotional responses, and their nervous system ~ acknowledging the ways they contribute to soil of their partnership ꩜ Those that are ready to truly integrate the course content into the fabric of their lives, understanding that this journey can only have impact if they are ready to fully embody it and commit to making the necessary changes ꩜ Those that are willing to meet their edge, leaning into realms that can feel uncomfortable, understanding that this is a necessary part of wholling & healing ꩜ Those that are prepared to explore their emotional landscape and the depths of vulnerability, allowing themselves to be held in a circle of loving compassion ꩜ Those that are ready to fully choose themselves and go on a journey of self-discovery and self-reclamation ꩜ Those that are ready to invest in an experience that can only deepen the relationship they have with themselves and others - not necessarily ‘fix’ it.
Note that this course is NOT for:
Those that aren’t yet ready to fully face or acknowledge the parts of themselves that may be suppressed or untouched (knowing that not feeling ready to go there is perfectly okay and needs to be honoured as such) ꩜ Those that aren’t comfortable sharing their vulnerability in a container with other people ꩜ Those that are seeking 1:1 relationship counselling ꩜ Those that are wanting a quick fix and aren’t ready to fully honour the integration process and the ways in which the deepest work takes place outside of the classroom ꩜ Those that don’t have an open mind when it comes to energy work and would be confronted by shamanic protocols (we work with plants such as Mapacho and sage to support in clearing and alchemising emotional releases) ꩜ Those that aren’t ready to take responsibility for their parts, their emotions, and their behaviours, and make the necessary changes required to come into deeper unity with both themselves and their partners ꩜ Those that are wanting to bring their partner into this container to “fix” or “heal” them - ONLY bring your partner into the container if they are consciously choosing it as a soul-investment, and are ready to take full responsibility for their healing and make changes from the inside out ꩜
The Soil Investment
Early Bird (Save $111 if you book before April 7th)
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$1,111
(Save $77 if you pay in full as opposed to payment plan)
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8 x weekly payments of $148.50
Coming to a total of $1,188.
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A deep dive into self-reclamation and the rivers of relating that takes place across 8 transformational weeks.
Classes take place in person, once a week in Warrandyte, Melbourne. (usually on a Thursday evening). They go for 3 hours each. Dates are listed earlier on the page.
Each participant will also receive an additional private 1:1 with either Demi Lee or Joshua, who will guide them to explore their emotional landscape, assisting them in discovering any earlier imprints and/or that may be impacting their relationships. This 1:1 can be redeemed at any time during the 8-week container.
Integration tasks and homework that will take the work multiple layers deeper.
Content that covers:
Your relationship with yourself
Family Systems Therapy and how to explore your emotional landscape
Mother and Father relationships and how that plays out in partnerships
Understanding attachment styles
Understanding core wounds / trauma and how that impacts our relationships with others
Regulating the nervous system.
Working with anger and fire in healthy ways.
Asserting boundaries
Self responsibility & how to become radically accountable for how you contribute to the dynamic of all your relationships
Conscious Communication
Understanding your needs and asking for them
Erotic Blueprints, Sex, and understanding eachothers anatomy.
Maintaining Passion and Desire
Understanding love languages
Main Sale (Book after April 7th)
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$1,222
(Save $77 if you pay in full as opposed to a payment plan)
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8 x weekly payments of $162.40
Coming to a total of $1299
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A deep dive into self-reclamation and the rivers of relating that takes place across 8 transformational weeks.
Classes take place in person, once a week in Warrandyte, Melbourne. (usually on a Thursday evening). They go for 3 hours each. Dates are listed earlier on the page.
Each participant will also receive an additional private 1:1 with either Demi Lee or Joshua, who will guide them to explore their emotional landscape, assisting them in discovering any earlier imprints and/or that may be impacting their relationships. This 1:1 can be redeemed at any time during the 8-week container.
Integration tasks and homework that will take the work multiple layers deeper.
Content that covers:
Your relationship with yourself
Family Systems Therapy and how to explore your emotional landscape
Mother and Father relationships and how that plays out in partnerships
Understanding attachment styles
Understanding core wounds / trauma and how that impacts our relationships with others
Regulating the nervous system.
Working with anger and fire in healthy ways.
Asserting boundaries
Self responsibility & how to become radically accountable for how you contribute to the dynamic of all your relationships
Conscious Communication
Understanding your needs and asking for them
Erotic Blueprints, Sex, and understanding eachothers anatomy.
Maintaining Passion and Desire
Understanding love languages
Refund Policy
IF EVENT ORGANISERS CANCEL:
In the extremely rare event that we may need to cancel, postpone, or reschedule the course, participants will have the option to transfer fees to an alternative date or receive a full refund of the course fees paid.
Please note that in the event that the course is cancelled, postponed, or rescheduled by Demi Lee and Joshua, we are only able to refund the course cost. We are not able to reimburse any additional expenses incurred to the participant to attend the relating course e.g. accommodation, loss of wages, or travel costs. Participants concerned about this are advised to look into travel insurance providers that may be able to assist should this occur.
IF PARTICIPANT CANCELS:
You will be eligible for a full refund of fees paid ONLY if you, the participant, decide to cancel within the 7-day money-back guarantee period, please note there is an admin fee of $50 (to cover processing fees/set up fees we incur).
You will be eligible for a partial refund (50%) ONLY if you, the participant decide to cancel between the 7-day and 14-day period after booking.
Note that we do not offer any refunds outside of the 14-day period under any circumstances (unless we cancel) due to the fact that all costs are incurred before the course commences. If you have further questions, don't hesitate to get in touch with us at: hello@wildweavings.com
If you cancel outside of the 14-day period - you can:
Opt to transfer to the same course at a later date ( we will be releasing this course again later this year) .
Opt to transfer the course to a different person (friend, family or someone interested in taking over the course)
Unlimited Access: so you can return to complete the course at any time *Dependent on the course
Love goes after what is ambivalent and armoured about you. It wants to penetrate the deepest recesses of your being and bring to light what is unresolved within you. It will give you the same lesson again and again until you understand that you are what you attract.And it doesn’t come to you - it has to be inside of you.
Love can only be found through the act of loving.
Contact us.
If you need any more information regarding ‘The Soil’ and or have any questions regarding what this deep journey into the realms of relating involves, feel free to send us a line using the form below. We will get back to you as soon as we can.